Be a unit with your spouse
The more unite you are with your spouse, the easier it is for both of you to raise your kids. First of all, you should agree on some certain aspects. Discuss with your partner how to bring up your kids. Know each of your responsibilities. Avoid contradictions between the two of you. Share your duties and let each of you be responsible for their own sphere. Deal with problems and issues first, resolve conflicts and avoid misunderstandings.